E.F.
i loved our tour in norfolk. we lived in norfolk, in an area called riverview, off granby street just north of the zoo, in an 100+ year old victorian house, with stained glass windows, four fireplaces and a beautiful grand staircase. it was awesome. we didn't have kids at the time, so i know nothing about the schools in the area. my boss lived in an equally beautiful area in ghent - there's also west ghent and larchmont . i've been to houses in each of those areas and they are great.
my cousin lived in an area of chesapeake called riverwalk. it is a planned community with newer homes and schools. very popular area - close to shopping. there's also an area in chesapeake called greenbriar that is nice.
i don't know much about virginia beach, except that it is pretty loud... everytime we met with friends at restaurants out there the jet noise was awful. now, i am married to a naval flight officer, so I am used to noise, but it was REALLY bad out there... so check out the 'sound' of freedom before signing a lease or buying a house.
good luck