Raw foods are great! Pears, apricots, peaches, grapes, bananas, zucchini, cucumber, mango, etc. My 14 mo old loves most of those. We try apples sometimes, but not too much. I usually give her a slice and sit with her while she wittles away little pieces. It makes me nervous if she gets too big of a piece, so I hover pretty closely with the apples. The rest, she's great with!
We had trouble with the milk too. It took a little while. We switched from breastmilk to milk about the same time you are and she didn't really start to like milk until about 2-3 weeks ago. She actually liked soymilk (plain) better than cow's at first and I thinks its probably better for her anyways, so that's what she drinks now. At first, I made it fun for her. I warmed it just a bit and let her use a real straw while I held her and the cup and straw. Then she gradually learned to like it and now I have to restrict her to 3 small cups a day. She chugs it almost without taking a breath and then asks for more. So it just took a little time.
Good luck!
J.