Hi T.!
I'm not sure what PCOS is, but I can tell you what I have had to go through to conceive and maybe that will help? I only have periods 4-6 times a year and have been that way most of my life. In addition, my OB/GYN said that I only ovulate some of those times. So, when we decided we wanted a baby, he immediately put me on Clomid (the mildest dose). We conceived the very first time and I have a wonderful son. Then we decided we wanted another baby and tried "the old fashioned way" and actually conceived after about 6 mos. of trying. Unfortunately we lost that one at 22 weeks due to an extra set of chromosomes. My body didn't realize the baby had died and I had to have a D&C. Then I was really messed up. I wasn't having periods, so I took Progesterone. This made me have a period, then I'd take Clomid on my period, then do a follicle scan and if we saw a follicle, I'd get an estrogen shot. With all of this, the 2nd time I ovulated, we conceived our next son. Then, a few years later we decided to try again now for a girl. 1/2 of my time of TTC was with one dr. in GA and then we moved back to IN and the 2nd half was with the dr. that helped us conceive all of the previous times. He did things differently this time (I am unsure why). We did Clomid off and on (as you have to let your body take a break) and also had to take Progesterone to have periods, but this did not work for 2 years. Then he suggested we do IUI up to 2 times and if that didn't work my only other option was IVF. We did Clomid and the IUI and conceived our 3rd son. So, knowing all of this history and the fact that I was nursing our 3rd son, I never thought we would need to worry about birth control, but I surprisingly got pregnant on our own! So, we are expecting again and guess what? It looks like another boy!! Anyways, my point with all of this is, for me each conception has been very different and yet, my original problem has always been the same. So, I don't know what to recommend, except that if you trust your dr., I would trust that he/she knows what will be best for you. I hope it is easy for you. TTC is such an emotional roller coaster. Oh, and if it matters, I was 25 with my first and will be 35 when this one is born and all have the same father. Take care and good luck!!!