I didn't go through all the other responses, but having pumped for my own daughter, here is what helped me:
- You will naturally have ebb and flow (LOL) By this, I mean, you will probably have days when you have LOTS of milk and days when you don't have as much. Remember, your body produces what your baby needs at that time... even the color etc. of your milk changes over time. I've read that your milk can change from hour to hour to meet a baby's needs. Sooooo.... on the days when you have more supply, pump more!
- Look at a picture of your baby while you pump, OR better yet, look at a picture of her AND smell a blanket or article of her clothing, OR best- nurse her on one side while pumping the other!
-Eat oatmeal. It will increase your supply somehow- I thought it was crazy, but it worked for me!
-Drink, drink, and drink some more! WATER!!!! If you are consuming caffeine, you are dehydrating yourself. Remember, by the time you FEEL thirsty, you are already dehydrated. Keep water chilled in the fridge and keep it by you when you nurse, etc.
-DON'T worry about starving her. If she was hungry, she would be crying and fussing at your breast. Your body is producing what she needs. If this is a concern, call your pediatrician and ask if you can bring her in to get weighed. Most peds will let you bring a baby in to get weighed anytime without an appt.
- Join LLL (La Leche League) It will give you sooo much peace of mind to be around other moms who have been through nursing their babies and can give you advice.
Good Luck!
-Amanda