Hi ~ This might be outside your realm of what you are looking for, but I just published my cookbook called 8 Degrees of Ingredients. It was geared with kids in mind. It is a hypoalleregnic cookbook and includes over 250 recipes that exclude the top 8 allergens (wheat, eggs, milk, soy, peanuts, tree nuts, fish and shellfish.)
I realize you may be wondering why I am telling you about it. But in my quest to make desirable, delicious meals for my family, i have discovered all these new grains, like Amaranth, Quinoa, and Buckwheat, for example. The cool thing about these grains is that they are LOADED with minerals and PROTEIN! Unlike wheat and rice that need to be fortified, these grains have naturally higher levels of protein and vitamins.
My book teaches you how to easily incorporate them into your diet, as well as where to find them. Buckwheat noodles, (which are SO good for you) can have a robust flavor, so I suggest using this with a robust sauce. Similarly Amaranth (nicknamed the SuperGRain) has a strong flavor that I mask in my PUmpkin Bread. Quinoa noodles are a great substitute for butter noodles.
Anyhow - it might be worth glancing at my website at www.EightDegreesofIngredients.com. There are recipes for things like Veggie Chili, Hush Puppies, Onion Rings, Veggie Burgers, Spaghetti Oh's, various pasta dishes, Sweet potato cakes, and more. And I slowly teach the user about alternative grains.
I know this is not targeted to Vegetarians, but thought I would just let you know it is out there...Cheers!