Problem with 2 Yr Old and Sleeping

now i know from experience maws dont ccare what you think my hubbys mom lived next door since my son was born but she passed away on the 17th but back to the point she let my for 4 yr old do anything he wanted to do a her house even hit on her which she knew i dont allow not even in play mode cus he cant distinguish the difference between play hit and real hit so its not allowed but she let him eat what he wanted no matter what which of course she was 83 set in her ways so my thing is good luck with this problem also my 2 yr old recently transitioned actually b4 he was 2 daddy starting laying down with him but daddy left town and i put a stop to it cuz i cant do it with my 4 yr old here (he gets into everything) so good luck

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Lordy Lordy Lordy!!! You think you are going to tell your Momma, your DD's GrandMamma, how to discipline!?! Those ol' Grandmothers do what they want....I know....I have one. She raised YOU didnt she? I gaurentee that she thinks that you are a newbee and she is a veteran. THAT IS WHAT NANNA'S ARE FOR!!!! I tell ya,, these women get to a certain age and WHAMMO!!! all of the sudden, they get all nice and squishy. I do believe one time my mother actually yanked me out of the car by my hair for mis-behaving (1974) my DD on the other hand could take a wreaking ball to her living room and she would be considered a Rembrant. "Oh, look how nicely she destroyed the sheetrock!!!"
You cant win with Grandma.....(sorry to break the news to you!!!)

Good Luck with Granny, (although you're in a tough spot!!!)
Mag :)

I remember when my kids transitions to big kid beds, that it took a while (maybe a month or two) to finally get them comfortable and back to their regular routines.

It sounds like there have been lots of changes at your house in recent months, and I agree that consistency is the key to helping with the adjustment.

When you talked to your mom last time, what did she say was the issue? Is it too much work for her to follow through with your routine? Maybe together you can talk about what is most important (that she falls asleep in her own bed or goes to bed at x time) and then your mom can still do it in a way that works for her as well. Kids adapt pretty well to different caregivers styles.