For baby #1 the whole family went out for dinner (everyone was in town because of my brother's reception, and they'd just left to go on their honeymoon)---I had the little speech all worked up, and kept trying to start it but my dad kept interupting. I was just sitting there thinking on what I was gonna say when he finally stopped talking when his wife suddenly said "did you just say you're pregnant?" and I said "No, I didn't SAY that"...she kept pushing it and mom and dad were like "she didn't say that" and finally I said "No, I was waiting for the drinks to get on the table". Everyone was shocked, mom started to freak out, and dad's wife was all, "Michael! Get Jam a margarita NOW". It wasn't as planned, but priceless just the same.
Now I'm pregnant with #2, but I'm keeping it from the family until we go visit in May for my friend's graduation. I've told mom she has a couple Mother's Day presents, but cheap as I am, I'd rather bring them a little late than mail them, and she's fine with that. One of the gifts will be a shirt I'm going to have made that says "I love my THREE grandchildren" (my #2 will be her third). When we visit the rest of the family on that same trip, I've gotten my son a "Big Brother" shirt from Babies R Us to wear. And since we haven't had a formal family photo made in a year, we also thought it'd be fun to get a family photo with my son wearing that shirt and resting his hand on my belly (he already kisses the belly goodnight), for the family that lives out of state and country. (Some know, some don't).