Well... I suppose it's a little late for him not wanting more children. ;-) It's really up to you whether You don't want anymore children. Every woman has to make that decision for herself and Not let others influence that decision... whether you think the timing is right or money is right. As a parent, you always find a way to make ends meet. There are a million ways to cut corners and save money. I was living on a grocery budget of about $30 a month for two adults. Believe me... it can be done. You just have to hussle a bit. Get into food programs, Community Harvest Food Bank, church programs. You can get free and reduced price clothing from charities, churches, thrift stores, and garage sales. There are ways to get by.
My ex is now out of the picture for good. When he was gone, I didn't know how I would make it. I found I made too much to qualify for food stamps or many help agencies. They all told me to quit my job or go part-time. I refused to do that.
I went to churches for food vouchers at the Community Harvest Food Bank. Another girlfriend and I worked together to take turns going different places for food. We would swap for extra items the other could use. There are churches that give free bread and milk. Others have thrift stores for clothes. I put a posting up at work for clothes, and even strangers gave me baby clothes and diapers. I went garage-saling over the summer. Spent $300 and bought complete wardrobes up to 6T and other items up to 10 including shoes, toys, coats, blankets, dressers, beds, and linens.
I found a home daycare that only charge $100 a week for my 1 and 2 year old. She would watch them on Saturdays so I could study for school. I was working full-time and going to work full-time. During the week I would study after the boys were in bed between 12am to 3am. Then get up at 8am to get them ready for the sitter so I could go to work. 2 years later I've finished my degree, started my own business part-time, and still work full-time. I've found a new boyfriend, who's great with the kids.
Things have a way of working themselves out for the best even if the circumstances seem extremely challenging. I believe every woman has the ability to accomlish everything she desires. You just need to have the drive and be humble enough to ask for help and take the advice or whatever if offered.
Send me an email if you like for the other details. I've been through a very challenging last 10 years, but I'm so happy now. I look forward to everyday with excitement. I am a better person for my struggles, and I wouldn't change a day of it!
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