S.D.
Congrats on your new pregnancy. Having 1 preemie does not mean any other babies will be premature. I had babies born at (in order) 23 wks, 34 wks, 26 wks, (then m/c at 12 wks), 37 wks, and 36 wks. You see my last 2 went the furthest. Of course everyone's reasons for having babies early can be different. My baby born at 26 wks was due to ruptured membranes, like you, and I did have babies born at 37 & 36 wks after that, so it can be done.
I do have to say, like someone else said, I would be concerned about any kind of herbs or anything else not recommended by a doctor. I know some people have had wonderful experiences with midwives, but when you are high risk (which you now are), I would recommend a perinatologist. I went to one for my last 2 pregnancies and I give them the credit of keeping me pregnant as long as I went with those 2 babies. I see that you are against interventions for labor and delivery, but things are different when you are high risk, you are dealing with your baby's life and need to do whatever it takes to bring that healthy, full time baby into the world.
I lost 2 of my preemies (and the 1 m/c), so by the time I had my living children, I would have done anything my perinatologist told me to in order to get those babies here and healthy.
I wish you luck with your pregnancy. I am curious as to how your 31 weeker did after birth and is doing now at just over a year old.
S.
mom of 19 yo, 7 yo, & 6 yo