M.H.
Just to give you a heads-up, unless she qualifies for a special needs sort of program, she won't be eligible for public school next year either. She has to be 5 years old by September 1 to go to kindergarten. -- As far as preschools, I would look into the church preschools in your area. They are generally 9:00-2:00 and for a 4 year old would be 3 days a week. This perfect to give her an activity, ger her socialized, and get her in a school routine, and introduced to school concepts. I'd push the preschool to consider letting her in their 4-year-old program (even though she misses the cut-off)and then you could put her in their pre-K program next year, which is generally 4 days a week. Then she will be one of the oldest in public school (like my daughter who has a 9/7 Bday) and will be prepared, mature, and hopefully a leader of her peers. :)