K.B.
My son did not become poopy potty trained until he was well over 3 and half...he would poop in his pants every single day. I was sooo very thankful that the center he is at did not stop him from moving up because of this. They still put him in the 3 to 5 year old room even with accidents. Nothing at all works for them. They have to decide all on their own. We did a sticker chart at school b/c it was just after lunch when he was going. That worked amazingly. I had it in his cubby and every time he went poop he got a sticker. On the 6th sticker him and I had a special day (we went to the park and played...I mean PLAYED, chasing each other around just the two of us. He even picked the park!) Since the day I put that chart at school we haven't had a single problem. Bribery only works if it's something they really really want. More time with Mommy, or extra special time with Mommy worked for him. He loved it. And best of all...after those 6 stickers he was potty trained. It was just that. One day he sat up on his cot and said "I have to poop" and that was that. They have to decide. I'm sorry...but the more you push the longer it takes...Trust me...We just crossed that bridge!