M.L.
Hi H.,
I wouldn't postpone it again it's time she learns. I am 34 with a 19 year old daughter. When she was little and we started potty training we made it a big game. My daughter responded well to going shopping and picking out her own big girl panties and toilet. When we got home I put a pair on her favorite toy(a stuffed bear). She loved that. When it was potty time I would take the bear with us and I would pull down it's panties and hold the bear on the regular toilet while she was on hers. She would tell me when the bear was done and we would wipe and flush together. Some children want to go on the big toilet because thats what everyone else does they sell little seats that fit on to the toilet yet make it so the child won't fall through. If you do that route take her with and let her pick out her seat, panties and potty friend (if she doesn't have one). Also a calender to put stars on the days she doesn't potty in her pants with a reward at the end of the week might help to. It's been years since I've had to do it so I wish you lots of luck.