C.H.
You'll probably hear this repeated through other responses but don't put pressure on yourself or her about her needing to learn NOW. Just like everyone else in the world she WILL eventually learn, when she is ready. Just keep being consistant in your method and don't put any pressure on her. I learned when potty training my oldest (He's 4 today) that pushing them only prolonges it. It's like when you ask them to do something like picking up the toy u keep stepping on....the more you get on to them about it the longer they will take...u leave them alone and they move it to another location..not exactly what you wanted but better than nothing right? For right now it seems she not completely ready...so praise her for the good times and when she does have an accident assure her it's ok and that she will get better when she's a big girl. When you have confidence in them they begin to have it in themself and want to live up to your standards, so remeber not to set them to high for her.