J.B.
Well I can tell you as a mama of a 3 yr old and 1 yr old that sometimes one of them isn't getting what they need at the exact moment they need it cuz there's only one of me, and I am the mom! I mean who cares more than me, other than my husband, you know? It is hard when you have more than one child to look after and 4, well that's a handful! But children that are one are learning machines. Yesterday my one yr old was in the pots and pans cabinet and was matching up shapes and see which pots could fit inside other pots. That is learning at that age. If he is there and playing with children and toys, he's learning. When she smiles at him and talks to him, he's learning the world is a happy welcoming place. As long as he is safe and well taken care of, he's ok. Try not to worry unless you see something unsafe. The fact he is not clingy is a blessing, you would only feel worse if you knew he was crying for 2hrs!! Hang in there mama, it will be ok :D