Hi there!
Your email really spoke to me and although I don't know if this is a solution, I want to share with you what we have been going through lately.
My son just turned 9. He has never really liked to read or write, but is a straight A student and excels in math. He fidgets a lot and is clumsy, daydreams and has troubling focusing on tasks....all signs of ADD. I have questioned teachers and our pediatrician in the past about possible ADD, but last year his teacher said she didn't think he would "qualify." Pediatricians really don't seem to consider testing for ADD at young ages.
A few weeks ago, my son had his annual eye exam and it was determined that he has Convergence Insufficiency. This is a teaming problem, where the eyes do not work together. The dr. said it could affect reading, like skipping lines and losing his place, and sports. We left it at that.
Then last Thursday I had a parent-teacher conference with his teacher and found out that he far exceeded 3rd grade expectations in math but has a pile of unfinished reading work. I immediately called the eye dr. and he said, "This changes everything." So, we are starting home computer-based vision therapy next week. The dr. says this therapy is "phenomenally successful."
After googling "convergence insufficiency," I found that a lot of children are misdiagnosed with some type of ADD when they actually have this problem.
I hope this helps you. The symptoms are so similar. Please google this and see what you think. Maybe that's the root of it all. She just sounds SO much like my son.
Best wishes to you and your family! Please keep me posted....
K.
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