Dear B.,
I have so very much been in your shoes. It has been quite a few years as my children are grown now, but my youngest began having ear infections at 3 weeks of age! In her first three years of life she was on 37 antibiotics and 3 sets of tubes (the last time she also had her adenoids removed)!
After moving to Dallas we found an allergist in Plano named Vera Kantipong. She did food and airborne allergy testing on her and found that she had very strong food allergies (especially dairy products). When we began to eliminate ALL dairy from her diet, she really began to get better.
It was a LONG road, but we finally found the answer. One set of tubes may be a temporary fix, but if the problem returns, you should see an allergist and I recommend Vera Kantipong.
Now some advice for your second child, she also told me that even when I was breastfeeding, I should have eliminated dairy products from MY diet so that my child would not get any dairy. You might consider this with the child you are carrying. My other children also had this same allergy, just not to the extent that my youngest had.
I am also a childbirth educator in the Bradley Method and a Certified Birth Doula. If I can be of assistance, please let me know. My website is www.wholeheartbirth.com
K. Voigtsberger
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