Pediatrician

Updated on November 07, 2006
C.M. asks from Arlington, TX
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I think I need a new pediatrician. Every time my 19 month old daughter goes to the Dr. she starts crying whenever the Dr. comes towards her. Just to check her ears, her mouth, when she gets weight and measured. Is this normal? I'm also thinking about changing because her Dr. makes me feel like she doesn't have time to listen to my concerns or questions. The last time we went to see her Dr. was because she had a really bad diaper rash, she had been sick from her stomach and would use the restroom during the night. So in the morning when I'd change her I didn't know how long she had been sitting there with a dirty diaper for. So I got really scared because it looked like blisters all over her pritave(I had never seen this before), well when the Dr. came in to see her she looked at it and looked at me like I was stupid and goes OK whats the problem and I told her all these blisters and she goes it's just a diaper rash. And when I was explaining the situation to her she just cut me off and didn't want me to finish talking to her. I really don't like her because of that, I want a Pediatrician that will at least take the time to listen to me and not just rush me out and make me feel stupid when I have concerns. I know they are busy but I have never had a Dr. personally that has done that to me. This is the first and I've been wanting to change for a while but wanted to give her a chance. Does anyone love their pediatrician, and can you recomend them to me? I live in Arlington right by I20 and 360 so any one in that area would work. Thank you!!!!

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Thank you everyone that refered Dr. Fikkert, she was wonderful. My daughter loved her and I loved her, she is the best. I am so glad we went to her, it was a BIG difference from our old pediatrician. I am pregnant with my second child and have already put Dr. Fikkert for our pediatrican for our new baby. THANK YOU!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!

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K.C.

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I too am recommending Dr. Raine in Arlington. NEVER EVER has he made me or my children feel uncomfortable or rushed. I actually think he is the only Dr that I have come in contact wiht that spends so much time and is there for every detail supportively. He also can get you in the day you call, there is a group so Saturdays you have the option to take your child in and he's been around for a while. We just love him and I can't say enough about Dr. Raine. Best of luck to you.
Dr Raine ###-###-####, 848 West Mitchell, Arlington

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E.P.

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I also take my son to Dr.Fikkert in Arlington. She is AWESOME!! I totally agree with everything that was said in the other response. My son didn't like his doctor either, and got upset whenever we went. But that has never happened with Dr. Fikkert!! He LOVES her and actually enjoys going to the doctor now! She is very loving and caring to the children and respectful of the parents. You will never feel rushed or disrespected! Her number is ###-###-####. Feel free to email back with any other questions - she is also a personal friend of mine.

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K.B.

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I have an EXCELLENT pediatrician! Her name is Dr. Fikkert and she is in the hospital on the corner of I-20 and Matlock. My chidren LOVE to go to the doctor - even after they've had to get shots. They still love Dr. Fikkert and often tell me to "Call Dr. Fikkert" when something is wrong "she'll know what to do". She is funny and light hearted with the kids but very honest and straight-forward with the parents. She is very good about explaining to the children exactly what she is going to do and even goes into things like explaining before she looks in private places that no one else can look there except Mom and that the only reason she (the Dr.) can look there is because mom (or dad) is there and gives them permission. Then she will ask for your permission. I can't say enough good things about Dr. Fikkert!

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D.O.

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My boys see Dr. Raine. He is with Cook Children's in Arlington. He is absolutely WONDERFUL! I never feel rushed or that I am imposing by asking questions. I highly recommend Dr. Raine. His # is ###-###-####.

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D.S.

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My son goes to Dr. Meyer ###-###-####). He is in the same office as Dr. Fikkert. It seems that all of the doctors in that ofice are great! Rylan (my son)is 16 months & still doesn't like the vaccinations but likes the rest of the visit. I've found that Dr. Meyer is very relaxed, listens to all of my questions, doesn't judge or act like I'm stupid for asking certain things (this is my first baby so I'm sure some of my questions seem silly!), and is generally easy to talk to. Good luck with your search!

Danielle

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S.B.

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I don't have a Dr. recomondation for you, but I wanted to let you know that, Yes, it is normal for a 19 month old to cry when getting a check up. They don't like the doctor, the office, or anythign at all that is going on. Eventually, that will get better!

Also, if you are not comfotable with your Dr. (for whatever reason), you should get a new one. Especially if the doc won't listen to you. The relationship needs to be a partnership...they are there to help you and support you, not make you feel stupid!

Good luck with finding a Dr.! It took us 4 tries to get one we love (unfortunately, we are not near you)! I hope the process goes more quickly for you!

Take care!
S.

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D.B.

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If you have Medicaid she doesnt take it, but if you have private insurance she does and has been my son's doctor since he was about 4 yrs old. and he's 9 yr old now. And he's even disabled. She'll see any kind, She's very genle and kind with the patients, she will always say, "No owies" its so cute. But she is in zip code I believe 76133. Her name is Deborah Vert D.O. and her # is ###-###-####. She is in SW Fort Worth off Woodway Dr. and I-20. She is a Cook Children's Pediatrician. I highly recommend her. Good luck, but really any Cooks Pediatrician is good. D..

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