Mommy 2-2 - I can't speak for other parents but here is my thought process: perhaps if the health care profession had not been evasive and arguably deceptive about vaccines in the 90's, I would be a bit more trusting about what you have to say.
To wit: the Hepatitis B vaccine. My child born in '94 started it at 2 months. My younger child born in '97 had it at birth. I don't even recall consenting to the vaccine in the hospital. I trusted my board-certified doctors completely. I never had HepB, and would have gladly been tested for it. What changed in that three years between my two kids? Nothing that I can see. Guess which of my kids was the sickest one? Guess which one had a terrible time breast feeding (and I was very comfortable breast-feeding)?
www.iansvoice.org . My younger child had a terrible rash after the HepB vaccine too . . . luckily he survived (unlike poor Ian).
What angers me the most is that this vaccine was not given for my child's benefit. It was administered in a broader public policy effort to wipe out HepB in a population that is difficult to reach by the health care providers. Research Michael Belkin's testimony to Congress. And even sadder to realize, it's my understanding that the vaccine may wear off so my child might not even get the benefit when he's an adult!
And what about flu shots? For many years my pediatrician (board certified) told me that my children did not need flu shots because they were not in a high risk group (asthma or diabetes). Now, suddenly, I'm supposed to believe that if they don't get them I am taking an extraordinary risk.
And what about chicken pox? My children received that vaccine and I was not told they would need a booster. Guess what - now they do or they risk getting chicken pox as an older teen or adult - which is much worse! Yikes!
The same thing for the meningitis vaccine . . . my ped told me don't worry about it until my kids go to college. Fast forward a couple of years - suddenly it's urgent for my tween to get it immediately! And guess what - it wears off so he would need it again before college!
C'mon . . . can you really blame parents for being frustrated? It's not that we don't care - we CARE TREMENDOUSLY. For God's sake - we've watched our kids suffer! How many "hits" for the team are my children expected to take?
As a health care provider, you really should read the recent USSC Bruesewitz decision - here is a link: http://www.supremecourt.gov/opinions/10pdf/09-152.pdf . Are you aware that the Supreme Court has ruled that you cannot sue vaccine manufacturers in traditional courts of law, even for design defect claims? As Justice Sotomayor put it so well in her DISSENT (this was not the majority opinion):
" [. . . ] the majority’s decision leaves a regulatory vacuum in which no one—neither the FDA nor any other federal agency, nor state and federal juries—ensures that vaccine manufacturers adequately take account of scientific and technological advancements. This concern is especially acute with respect to vaccines that have already been released and marketed to the
public. Manufacturers, given the lack of robust competition in the vaccine market, will often have little or no incentive to improve the designs of vaccines that are already generating significant profit margins."
As a health care provider does it bother you that you may not receive all the data from vaccine manufacturers? Are you aware of how many times pharma companies have gotten into trouble for suppressing negative data pertaining to drugs? Why is it any different for vaccines? Particularly when they know they can't be sued? Most pediatric vaccine injury claims must be pursued through the "vaccine court" - which is nothing like a traditional court of law. And even if you prevail, your claim is paid from a fund that is replenished by a tax on each and every vaccine (not from the company who made it).
And finally, my younger child received his black belt this past weekend. And would you like to know the tears that streamed down my face, knowing everything he has been through? This was a kid who could not WALK a mile, much less run two miles in under 16 minutes (which he was required to do to be eligible for his black belt). This was a child who visited the doctor on a monthly basis for every illness that came down the pike. A child who had a severe staph infection in his knee. Who has a severe visual processing disorder and now reads on a high school level.
And how did he achieve these things? Was there any thanks for my mainstream, board certified ped (who is a very nice guy btw)? Absolutely not. It was thanks to a terrific integrative MD who actually helped us get to the SOURCE of our child's problems, and heal them! And of course, it was thanks to my son's tremendous heart and courage.
So you'll have to forgive me for my skepticism. While I'm not anti-vaccine (I do think certain vaccines are "worth it" in certain situations), I will NEVER, ever again, accept the status quo explanation when it comes to my children. Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.