Don't ever give a child juice. In fact no person should be taking more than 2 tsps. of juice in a 4 hr. period. It's got too much sugar. The body cannot handle that much sugar and it expells it quickly in children causing them to dehydrate. You could literally cause your child to go into a diabetic. Water only. If she is not breastfeeding, no milk. Ween them off juice and milk asap. She likes the sugary taste of the juice and could be addicted.
Water only.
If she stands in front of the fridge and cries, remove the child from the front of the fridge, hand her water, and play a game, smile and laugh and do a funny face to distract her attention. Or get bubbles at the store and blow them with her. She will love it.