Nostalgia

It IS so hard to say goodbye! This year is my sons last year at his elementary school, a school I love. And his last year playing football for a club and having his dad coach...I want to cry every time I look at my almost 12 yr old who weighs almost as much as me and is almost as tall (and I'm no shorty! I'm 5'7") Where did my little boy go?? And my daughter....she's 13, so definitely more grown up than I wish. I often say I want a re-do w/ their toddler years! I want to savor every moment and enjoy them more, instead of being stressed all the time.

I, too, was sad when my son no longer wanted to do scouts and was done w/ the Pinewood Derby cars. That was always such a big deal! So, any young mamas...enjoy every second because they'll be gone before you can blink!

I know what you mean. We did the pinewood derby cars too but our biggest thing was baseball and softball. All three of my children played, sometimethe same night! I was going through a divorce at the time and the practices and games kept me and the kids busy.

I really miss those days. I drive by those fields all the time and it is a little sad I can't go back in time for one more game. However I am here to tell you, there are other things ahead, perhaps junior high plays, graduations, first dates, and even broken hearts.

Tomorrow I am going to a wedding shower for one of my sons and his future bride. My daughter and her husband have given me two wonderful granddaughters. Then there is "Uncle Justin" who who drives out of his was to spend time with my granddaughters but pretends he is not enjoying it!

It is not over but is is going to be different. It is time for the next chapter. Sit back relax and enjoy it! I promise it is going to be a ride you will never forget.

I wish I could turn the page back everyday, the only thing that keeps me going sometimes is waiting for what the future will bring!!! In the meantime, no grandchildren, but I do have some new little people in the family provided by other family members. Yes, sob, I know what you mean.

Awwww....milestones. Look at it this way--think of all the grandkids PWDs you'll get to enjoy!

I feel that way sometimes when I drive past a ball field or basketball court . . . or when I see the big bucket of dinosaurs that my younger son just loved.

It's bittersweet isn't it?

Czech M.:

oooohhhh honey!! i know what you mean!! We had Nicky's PWD last Friday...he took 2nd place with his Purple People Eater (it SHOULD have been 1st...he set the track speed record!! URGH!!)

Next year will be our last one.....I'm sure it will hit me like this too!! You are not alone!!

My thing that makes me a bit sad is Santa. I love the "magic" of Santa. Leaving out the milk and cookies, taking him to see him, etc. He is 6, so I will be surprised if I get another year out of him. When he is bigger I will still do "Santa" but it won't be the same once he knows. They grow too fast!!! :-)

i have 4 little boys and the oldest has his first pwd this morning. reading your post made me a little teary because i know i will feel the exact same way when all the pwd and basic childhood things are over. my husband and i constantly remind ourselves that there is a big picture beyond the baby years, but thanks for reminding me to appreciate where we are:) good luck at your race!

With 9 years between my sons (15 & 24), we are achieving milestones each & every day. Some are uplifting, some are heartbreakers. But, my approach to life has always been positive.... so for me, most of our events are to be celebrated & are a cause to rejoice!

Right now, my Sis & I are faced with our oldest children moving out of state. Instead of focusing on our melancholy & heartache, we are applauding that they will be one state away from each other....& we can meet where my son will be living. To us, it's a perfect setup....one day's travel for us & one day's travel for my niece....& we all can be together with my son! We are very close as a family....& it is important to us to maintain this - for both generations. It is only the knowledge that we are willing to work with them....that has enabled our children to make these life-altering choices. & we are danged proud of them! (I also find it ironic that my Sis & I had our oldest children together....& they're both moving in the same direction...at the same time. Destined to be close cousins!)

when faced with a situation like yours, please don't spoil the moment for your child....instead of saying there won't be one next year, simply smile & let it go. Let your child rejoice in the moment....he'll forget all about his plans this time next year. No "Negative Nelly", please!

Good question!