Nine Month Old Suddenly Waking up in the Middle of the Night?

Updated on November 08, 2011
A.C. asks from Seattle, WA
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My daughter hasslept through the night since she was about eight weeks old with the occasional getting up once in the middle of the night while going through a growth spurt. Now, for the past week, she has been getting up at pretty much the exact same time (between 11-12). She starts out talking, then whining and if I don't go in there yet, crying then screaming. I go in there, give her a botte, change her diaper and then she immediatly goes back to sleep. How long will this last? Crying it out isn't an option because our bedroom is right next to hers and she wakes up my husband. He has to go to work early in the morning so if he hears her scream he gets upset too. I've tried rubbing her back and even rocking her but she won't go to sleep unless she has her bottle. I don't know if this is a growth spurt or if eventually it will become a habit. Her eating schedule hasn't changed during the day and neither have her naps. She does have teeth coming through but they've already cut. Any experience or suggestions are welcome.

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So What Happened?

we took our daughter to her nine month appointment and while there asked the dr about her sleep changes. he suggested giving her a bowl of oatmeal before bed. that night my husband gave her oatmeal about a half hour before bed and she slept through the night. yay!

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D.P.

answers from Seattle on

Our son did that, and I let it go on WAY too long. Months. At last I tried shorting his bottle by 1/2 oz. each night, so he eventually got about an ounce and then gave it up. He still whimpered at the same time each night for a few nights, but then slept through again. He actually started it up again much later (almost a year later?) and I started up with the milk again so that we could get some sleep and then realized the error of my ways and started diluting it w/ warm water until all he got was water. You might try thinning out your breastmilk or formula a bit at a time to see if she changes her mind about sleeping through.

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C.B.

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I bet it's just a phase. My son went through sporadic phases like this. Once, he didn't sleep for more than 20 min at a time for a week (which, of course, happened to be finals week.) He's 2 1/2 now and he sleeps like a champ. Give it another week or so.

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L.R.

answers from Seattle on

9 mos. is also a key time for separation anxiety... just be thankful you are getting sleep. both of my kids have sleep issues... it's been 5 years since i slept well. it could be worse...

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A.K.

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I'd say a baby that has slept thru the night from 8 weeks to 9 months, is a blessing! None of my 3 managed to sleep fully thru the night until much older.Babies don't come with a sleep guarantee. Being up once a night is not uncommon, for well beyond 9 months. Perhaps if you responded sooner, it would be easier as she either grows out of this, or doesn't.

L.G.

answers from Eugene on

If you are already giving her a bottle try an ounce of prevention. About an hour and a half after her dinner of cereal (rice cream is best) give her the bottle with a banana as a smoothie. You'll have to use a hot needle to make the opening of the nipple larger. She'll be full and sleep through the night.
If you go to bed early don't expect her to sleep a full night until morning without food. Babies have a very high metabolism.

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