T.H.
Hi M.!
Sorry this response is so late. Welcome to the Army. It sucks to be the new person but you can get through it. I wanted to tell you to get involved with your FRG (Family Readiness Group). They can give you a lot of resources. I'm not sure what your husband's rank is but if you can try to buy a CHEAP car. One that can get you from point A to Point B. If that's not an option. You could also share your one car with your spouse. You take him to work and pick him up 2 or 3 days out of the week. That way you're not stuck in the house, you can get out and buy food, go to a mommy and me type of class so your daughter can hang out with other little kids, etc., etc. Also go to the ACS (Army Community Services). They can help you with learning a lot about the Army. There are different classes that they give (with free child care) to help spouses cope with the military lifestyle. ACS could also help you find a job. But your best bet is to start with your (FRG) Family Readiness Group. Ask your husband to find out who your FRG leader is. He can ask his section Sergeant or his senior NCO. The FRG will contact you and make this transition into the Army a little easier. One more thing that I thought of, you are also allow to contact a chaplain. They can also help you with being stressed as well as other resources. I hope this helps.