J.S.
With not knowing how or where you spend your money, we put ourselves on a cash only budget. It sounds like you are trying to keep track of what you spend. So figure where you need to be money wise in each item, and put that much in an envelope. When the money is gone, the money is gone. We ended up starving and running out of gas money for about 2 months. But it was an eye opener for us. When you use your credit/debit card you loose track of what you have spent, so it is easy to blow your budget. Good luck