Hello, I think the traditional games are fine. Musical chairs, hot potato, the "limbo". You can change them around (use a water filled balloon for the hot potato, different size chairs, etc) For a sleep over you can have pizza, (Costco or Little Cesars) salad and cake.Or bake cupcakes and let them decorate their own with the frosting and assorted sprinkles and toppings. You can rent movies (chick flicks-age appropriate) maybe even a dance contest or kareoke (spelling?) You can still have a great party at home. Go to dollar tree or Wal-mart for goodie bags. Hair pins, bows, lip glosses, nail polish. Whatever you decide i'm sure your daughter will have a great party and everyone will have fun. Good luck. I don't even have girls, I have 2 boys and we had many birthday parties at home. no complaints.