M.J.
Hi K.,
I would have to agree that he may just be uncomfortable in his seat. I have used the Britax Boulavard since my daughter was 9 months. It is pricey but worth every penny. Oh my what a great seat! And you can use it forever, up to 65lbs anyway. I would have to disagree with turning him forward too soon. You really want to go to the maximum weight on your seat for his spinal safety. Hundreds of children die daily from internal decapitation in 30mph crashes. Just about all are turned before there spinal cord can support their head in a whiplash situation. Please visit www.cpsafety.com and educate yourself on this. My daughter stayed rear facing until she was 3 years, 2 months and 32lbs. She was perfectly happy and comfortable. She also watched her dvd thru a mirror and she was much safer for it! You have to realize they dont know any different so it isn't a bad thing for them to ride that way. And yes their legs do get longer but they sit indian style. If you watch children while watching tv or just sitting, that is how they sit anyway. It is comfortable for them. No stiudies have showed any problems with there legs in rear facing accidents either. If I had to choice I would much rather a broken leg vs severd spinal cord. Sorry to go on but that is one that a lot of people dont bother to research. Its always lets hurry and rush them to the next stage, why? They will grow up fast enough. Protect them while you can. If you dont have a dvd player installed in your car then you can get an automobile one from Walmart or target. They strap on the seat and aren't too expensive. I really wish you luck with this. Your a great mom:)
Jamie