B.R.
My husband is a nail biter and our daughter started when she was in pre-k. I hated it, so we bought a product at Walmart called "stop the bite" and painted it on their nails. My daughter made a deal with her dad to see who could stop first....of course she did! He is still a nail biter, and occasionally we paint his nails with the stuff while he is sleeping! She stopped right away though, the stuff even stays on through several hand washings during the day. I tried it on my pinky, and I am a compulsive hand washer...so through out the day I would check my pinky to see if it was still awful tasting and it was...so I knew that my daughter's fingers were still icky at pre-k!
Also.....I have pointed out to them numerous times that even though my daughter is in school all day now (2nd grade now)....that she is rarely sick, and he is sick all of the time! See if you can find some pictures on the Internet of what germs from fingers and nails look like under a microscope....maybe that will gross her out and make her stop! We were just in a wedding, and my daughter was very proud to be the only one of 8 little girls that didn't have stubby dirty little chewed up nails at the pre wedding spa party! We keep nail brushes at all of the sinks and in her tub, so she keeps them nice and clean too! Good luck!