My Daughter Is 6 and Needs Tubes in Her Ears Again?

Updated on April 05, 2012
D.B. asks from Culver City, CA
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My daughter is 6 years old. She had her tonsils and adenoids removed and tubes put in her ears at Childrens Hospital in Los Angeles when she was 4. At every check up the ENT, Dr said everything looked great. We used ear plugs for every bath/shower, swimming party, beach, everytime she was near water she had the plugs in. Today she went to have a hearing test. The Dr said she's lost hearing in both ears. He said her hearing is like you or I walking around with ear plugs in our ears 24/7. After the Dr said she needed surgery again my brain shut down. I didnt ask any questions? I know I should have but all these horrible thoughts and flashes started going through my head, my daughter is walking around everyday and can not hear everything I hear. Is this why she is struggling in school? Is this why she doesnt like to read? My 6 year old is watching TV and has the volume turned up so high like she's 90 years old. If she has this surgery again, will her hearing come back? Will this second surgery help? So now I've written down all the questions I should have asked today and waiting for the doctor to call me back.

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G.B.

answers from Oklahoma City on

My next to the youngest grandson was found to be deaf. He didn't even respond to the bass drum being banged behind his head. The ENT put tubes in to see if it would help him hear better. When he went in the ear canal he found debris from ear infections that antibiotics had not touched. He cleaned out so much goo.....it took nearly an hour extra.

Once he came out of surgery he could hear and has been able to hear just fine since. The tubes do work themselves out. It is just part of the growing process.

I say get them done and see if it helps.

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T.A.

answers from Seattle on

Have you tried removing dairy from her diet and taking her to a chiropractor? I've seen chiropractic care for around three months help all kids except one out of maybe ten.

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J.K.

answers from Kansas City on

my youngest son had tubes put in 3 times from age 3 to 6. His hearing was described by our doctor, about the same as your daughters. And yes, he has outgrown it all. He is 13 now and hears fine. But he still struggles a lot at school, especially reading. But try to be positive, every kid has a struggle in some form or other, try not to think of it so negative. Just help her along as best as you can and work with the school, so they are helping her too so she won't get behind. It will be okay.

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C.A.

answers from Los Angeles on

My son has a hearing loss. It is amazing how they compensate. there is plenty they do not catch, but, they learn techniques to fill in the gaps. those are great questions .

L.A.

answers from Austin on

I am sure if not all , probably all of her hearing will return.

Questions, when will this take place?
Where?
in a day clinic, in a one day hospital
a Hospital with a over night stay?

How long will she need for recovery
What are the Doctors expectations?
What should you do to help your daughter to prepare?

What should you be looking for ?, her reactions, pain, recovery , amount of improvement of her hearing.

What about swimming this summer?

I also would inform her teachers, so they can move her in class to help her hear. I know at our daughters elementary school they had head phones for 2 students that were having troube paying attention. The teacher wore a microphone so these children could rally focus on what she was saying.. Maybe your childs shcool has something they can use to assist your daughter,.

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M.L.

answers from Colorado Springs on

Good for you! Many people forget everything when the doctor tells them something startling. You're making a good comeback by writing everything down that you think of. Pick his brains! No question is too small or too stupid.

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L.C.

answers from Los Angeles on

Don't forget that you can always get a 2nd or 3rd opinion from other doctors. Good luck!

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