The curcial component during development is the switching ends of the crib for sleeping and being sure your daughter is carried as much as possible when awake. As soon as she begins to roll over, you should see a vast improvement.
I wish to also acknoweldge the skills of Dr. Frank Vicari at Children's Platic Surgery Department. He has performed several surgeries for both my youngest son and daughter for which we are eternally grateful. He is very empathetic with parents and wonderful with children
A final comment, going back to work doesn't nescessarily become easier. I finally decided to start a home-based business to supplement my family's income and to allow me the freedom to be with my children. The time when they are growing is the most crucial. Don't let anyone tell you when they are teenagers then you can be comfortable at work. I have three children (20, 15, 13) and find I am needed more at home now then every before!
If you or someone you know is considering other options for balancing family, health, and income, please have them review my website at www.smartbusinessforyou.com.
My goal is to partenr with other women to make a difference in the world - starting with our families first.