My husband did two years on England and absolutely loved it! Congratulations! (I spent four years in Germany.)
He went as a single person, so it'll be a bit different for you. One thing he did say after house-sitting for friends, is that space is at premium, don't take what you don't have to take. Especially valuable antiques if you can leave them someplace safe here. Besides the space, there are somethings you don't want to trust to Tweedle Dee and Tweedle Dumber.
And the gas should not be as bad as off-base? When I lived in Germany we were given gas coupons so it wouldn't be as expensive. We did not pay what the Germans did for gas. Even so, like the other lady said, if you have a gas guzzler/large car leave it here! I had some friends take their Chevy Avalanche to England; as far as I know they used public transport a lot! Which might be a good idea anyway if you're going into cities. London, for instance has a "Metro" just like D.C.'s so you can see the city without having to try to park in it.
All bases (well, AF anyway!) have Lemon lots where you can get a used car. Buyer beware of course, but then you can sell it before you leave.
For some products, if you're willing to wait a bit, use the internet. Boy, to have had that when I was in Germany! (I left in '93). I did a fair amount of mail order. One thing; when I bought my Nikon F4s camera, they could not send it directly to me in GE because they sell that model in Germany. So I had to have it sent to my brother in MO and then he sent it out to me. Something about foreign competition, blah blah.
Good luck and HAVE FUN! If I think of anything else I will "edit my response". Oh! Why not write to my friend who were there for four years...stay tuned.
-S.
Okay, it took a few days, (turns out I did not have her current email!), but here it is...anything in [brackets] is me interjecting...
First off, seeing as she will be on a Military Base there will be a BX and a Commissary that she can use to find most of her basic items. Some things not to bring:
Anything electrical (if she has MUST have Electrical items, be prepared to use HUGE transformers).["Huge" being a relative term; the ones I used in Germany were about 6"x10"x10. Still, pretty big for what's essentially a plug! I borrowed mine from housing, didn't have to buy them. Also, the ones I had hummed a bit, but not so much you could hear them.]
The housing is really REALLY small (off base, not sure about on-base) so she should be prepared to put any huge/rarely used furniture into Storage.
Thankfully most online stores ship to APO Boxes so there shouldn't be a problem with getting any items that she needs, but she can expect that to take 1-2 weeks for arrival.
Regarding the car, it would probably be better for her to just buy one there. [These are the folks I was telling you about that took their Chevy Avalanche.] Even if she brought her car, not only would the VAT bleed her dry, but also all the required modifications to it like the light bulbs in the head/tail lights have to be changed, fog lights have to be installed front and back, etc. She can find a decent one for a good price at a dealership or on the Lemon Lot and then just sell it when they leave to come back to the States.
Another thing to remember...right now the British Pound is 1 - 2. Meaning that anything she pays 1 GBP for, she's actually paying $2 for so it's better to use the Commissary/BX whenever possible.
Let her know that she will LOVE England. The Schools (especially the preschools) off base are wonderful and much MUCH more advanced than the American ones. 99% of the people there are extra friendly and those that aren't and have a bug up their butts about the Americans just tend to ignore us.
Please feel free to give her my e-mail address if she has any specific questions there.
Talk to you soon,
Tara
More from me, S.; if you go into Scotland, make sure they know you're American, not British! Ireland too. Wales they don't care, they don't much care for anyone not Welsh anyway. But they'll take your money! Still, it's well worth going, Wales is GORGEOUS!
Of course try not to be an "ugly American"! Know your history. there's a saying, "for us 200 years is a looong time, to them 200 miles is a looong way". 200 years is the blink of the eye on the other side of the pond.