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I have a two year old that had heart surgery in Denver with we was just over 1 years old. We've know about her condition since before she was born so we've had a little time to process this. I know this may seem very scary but just enjoy the one on one time with your son. The people at children's are great. They will take great care of you. They have a woman who will come out ever hour to update you on the surgery. I know it's hard to just sit in the waiting room while they are doing their thing but go for a walk, get something to eat, they'll give you a pager so you don't lose your mind. I know it's hard being away from your kids. I've never been away from them that long but my other daughter stayed with grandma for the week we were at Children's. Enjoy it while you can. Know that they are in good hands and focus all your energy on Julian going thru the surgery. You won't want your kids to see him with all those wires and chest tubes anyway. If you ever need to talk drop me a line.