Hi T.! I know exactly how you feel...I had a really difficult time getting back into shape after having my son. There are a few things that really helped me get started: first, if you don't already have one, buy a jogging stroller! They are great and you can purchase a gently used one at a consignment store. I still use it with my 19 month old, and when you are busy and don't have a lot of "you" time, it works. Cardio is the best way to shed the lbs. As far as diets go, one of my BF's is a personal trainer and what I'd consider to be a fitness expert. She told me to limit my starchy-carb intake to one item a day. Therefore, I would try a daily meal plan such as whole wheat toast with reduced fat PB for breakfast, a salad (chef, or anything else with protein) for lunch, and meat and veggies for dinner. There are a lot of things you can cook that you and your husband will eat. If you like fish, it's really easy to prepare great fish in the oven. Regardless, the one-carb-a-day thing really helped me get started. Now, I am honestly in the best shape (and lowest weight) since I have been in HS! :) So, trust me, it works. Best of luck with everything...including your treatment at Moffitt. I work in HR there, and I think it is a wonderful place...you are in good hands.