I have a "beauty mark" under my left eye and another one near my left eye between my outer eyelashes and eyebrow. I've had them since I was little and never considered having them removed.
When I was in high school, a friend had a mole on her face that she was very self conscious about, had it removed, and then was self conscious of the scar.
About a year ago, I started getting what I thought was a little mole under my right eye. But, it started growing quickly, got crusty and scabby. I thought maybe I had been too rough on it taking makeup off or washing with my facial scrub. Then, it began to hurt. I was afraid it was skin cancer and went to the dermatologist. He said it had to be removed and biopsied right away. I didn't even care if it left a scar, I just wanted it off. He took it off and then cauterized it to stop the bleeding. I had to wear a bandage for two or three days without taking it off. When I did, I almost fainted. I looked like someone had burnt me with a cigarette. It was gross and much bigger than I expected. I had to keep vaseline and a bandaid on it every day for what seemed like an eternity, especially if I was going to be in the sun.
Now for the GOOD news!
It wasn't cancer, but it needed to come off because it would have just kept growing and believe it or not....I have no scar.
With an absolutely clean and bare face, if you look really, really closely, the skin there is a little bit lighter, but it's where I use cover-up under my eyes anyway and you can't even tell.
My doctor did a great job! I'm in California so that won't help you much, but it really is possible to have things removed with minimal if any scarring.
Best wishes to you!