Did you just lose the hearing, or is it hearing loss you've had since birth?
It is devastating to receive news like this. When I was in my mid-20s, I was having trouble with so much pressure in my head that it felt as if my head was going to explode. The ENT I went to not only discovered that my right eustachion tube was not working (I now have a permanent T-tube in my ear to hold it open), but that I also have 10% hearing loss in both ears that has been that way SINCE BIRTH! Totally shocked both me and my parents (my dad did say that explained why I wouldn't answer them sometimes and always said I didn't hear them).
Remember, though, that when I was younger, hearing was never tested. We would get our eyes tested, but there was no such thing as having the hearing tested. Hearing was ONLY tested if there was a potential problem, and then you had to be sent specifically to a doctor to have your ears and hearing tested. There weren't a lot of ENTs and testing booths when I grew up. My daughter had a lot of issues with ear aches, infections, when she was younger and had to have a lot of hearing tests to make sure her hearing hadn't been affected. The type of testing they did for her was a whole lot more sophisicated than even the testing I had done in my 20s (which is now 25 years ago).
My hearing loss is nerve loss and cannot be corrected with a cochilar implant or with hearing aids (I asked; my ENT said I could buy hearing aids but that I would most likely just be wasting my money). My hearing loss is good and truly gone.
Since I'd already grown up with the hearing loss and never knew I had it and had managed to "get by" without that 10%, life has pretty much gone on as before. However, it does explain why I have difficulty hearing people talk (especially in crowds or large rooms) and why I have to constantly adjust the volume on the TV (my hearing loss tends to be within those hearing ranges). I notice it more and more as I get older, which I suppose could also have to do with the fact that most of us also lose hearing a bit as we age.
I also never grew up using or wearing headphones or earbuds of any kind, nor did I ever listen to loud, blaring music. The loudest noise I was ever exposed to was sitting in front of the trumpet players in band. My hearing loss--at the moment--is stictly congenital hearing loss and not hearing loss due to ear trauma/loud noise.
I do, however, have issues with the T-tube, just because it's actually embedded into my ear drum and can and does move from side to side once in a while, which can make the "hole" bigger and thus can affect my hearing. That additional hearing loss comes and goes. I like to talk on the phone with my left ear because I don't hear as well out of my right.