Hi Melinda,
I am a lifetime migraine sufferer who recently found relief. My mother suffered from a migraine related stroke when she was 23 -- and I have severe ones that are similar in nature with aura, loss of sight, numbness and loss of feeling down one side of my body. The pain is excruciating and I am/was completely debilitated for 48 hours with a post-headache depression (which is the low seratonin levels and completely normal).
My doctor put me on a daily medication called elavil-- now its normally prescribed for depression but in low doses it regulates the brain. It helped and definitely minimized the symptoms of my migraine but I was still getting them.
I am a fitness instructor and coach and therefore pretty in tune with my body. I know my triggers and felt like I was missing out on great food and life! So I did some research and found that CoQ10 and most important, magnesium is showing to help with migraines. I started dosing myself 1000 mg of mag a day and a tablet of CoQ10. I had not had a migraine since then. Now when I come off the magnesium, they return.
My neurologist was impressed by my turn and asked what I was doing... I told him taking magnesium to which he answered, "OH sure... the research shows..." !!! Why it wasn't suggested to me, I don't know, but doctors treat with medicine and not all of them understand nutrition and supplements. (I have a great primary that does but that's another story!)
So that's what would suggest... do the research and maybe give it a try. Also, I highly recommend a great book by leading migraine doctor Buckholtz from Johns Hopkins called "Heal Your Headache". You can't miss out on life and you also can't stop to deal with a migraine and the roller coaster when you have kids. Good luck!