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Hello, Having mentstral like cramps and pain is normal and likely to occur throughout breastfeeding, it will come and go. Also you may notice that while your pumping/breastfeeding the cramps may be more intensified, and this is normal too. Some women can even have a period during breastfeeding. If you can- check with your obgyn for a lactation consultant or if theres a Nurse Practioner at your obgyn leave a message for her with your concerns and have her get back to you, or make an appt with her or the lactation consultant. I would especially express to them that the baby does not latch, there maybe some tools to help with this and you will feel much reward for your bond with your baby if you can have direct contact. you may also try "marsupial time" with your baby and this is a natural instinct for mammals like kangaroos- Now I know this sounds funny but studies have shown that when mother and baby have direct skin to skin contact (laying diapered only baby to your bare chest) that the too of you get in sync with each other, it slows the heartrate and work load and dispenses oxygen throughout better and creates that closeness. Dad can do this also. Now your baby is 5 months and this is usually when their appetite increases ask your pediatrician when you can start introducing stage 1 baby foods or prepare your own for your baby. Your pediatrician may also be a great resource for your lactation concerns ask to speek to the nurse there, or make an appt. and be sure to tell them also about your baby not latching and request them to check babys mouth. Ok I hope this helps!! Take Care