Menopause - Pflugerville,TX

Updated on May 29, 2013
D.R. asks from Pflugerville, TX
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Looking for women dealing with the dark side of menopause??!!!

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So What Happened?

have any of you just stopped wanting sex??? I never thought I would be one of those women that didn't care if she had it or not!!

And I can't stand my husband!!!

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D.Y.

answers from Odessa on

Have you tried the wild yam cream? I go to the health food store to get mine; everytime you have a hot flash, apply some to your wrist area, or any place the skin is thinner. It really helped after my hysterectomy at 34. I can't tolerate the HRT, makes my symptoms worse, so does too much soy.

My pet peave about menopause, is when people ask if you remembered your hormone pill??? As if you taking your hormone pill will offset the stupid pill they obviously took for the day! lol Laughter helps with this stage of life as much as all the others.

God Bless,

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S.G.

answers from Houston on

That would be me too. I know I am premenopausal. I have had hot flashes every 1-1/2 to 2 hours during the day, and hot flashes/night sweats throughout the night. By 3am, I have hot flashes every 30 minutes so I give up on sleep. This has been going on for almost 2 months now. My dr prescribed me high blood pressure medication to take at night. It didn't work. I didn't find any relief drinking soy milk or eating edamame's either. My dr was reluctant to prescribe HRT and I haven't pushed for it. I would like to ride this out, but it would be nice to know about how long it will last. I heard it gets better after the menopause stage for most women so I am keeping my fingers crossed.

BTW, I am not overweight, I do exercise and eat right, and so I have found that my healthy lifestyle did not prevent the hot flashes as is suggested in a lot of what I've read. I am not discouraging other women from trying to live a healthy lifestyle; I am just saying it didn't seem to put any points in my corner.

If the lack of sleep starts really getting to me, I might look further into the bioidentical hormone replacement. I am interested in if any of the women who respond to this have had any success with that route. If so, and if you live in the Frswd/Clear Lake area, who did you go to? And what happens when we finally stop that treatment? Are we just postponing this inevitable phase anyway?

On the flip side, I haven't been cranky or feeling out of sorts. I have experienced a few moments of uncontrollable tears which for me is unusual. I haven't felt that 'don't touch me' feeling that some women go through. For me, it is mainly the hot flashes. Having my very supportive husband could be my salvation on the emotional side of this change. On a non-work night, he will wake up with me!

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K.M.

answers from Houston on

It's not for sissies! I hope what I have now is as severe as it gets. I echo what Denise and Kellie have already said.

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D.P.

answers from Pittsburgh on

I'm getting there....I get really stressed out before my period and feel like I can't stand anyone or anything. Like I could jump out of my skin!

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J.H.

answers from Sacramento on

I am going through this nightmare now. I would like to know how you ladies are doing now. Did you find relief? If so, how? I started hot flashes and night sweats over a year ago, but it was just a glimmer of what I would experience. Now I get the hot flashes every hour through out the day and night. I feel bloated, and I feel as if I'm suddenly stricken with arthritis. The only way I obtain relief in the night is to take sleep aids. During the day, I believe I might go out of my mind. I'm taking some herbal suppliments, but I'm getting NO relief. I take a lot of ibuprofen. I've been experiencing these symptoms for about 6 monts and can't imagine this continuing for years. I feel as if I'm going crazy. And no I can't stand my husband either. Is there any help out there?

K.B.

answers from Milwaukee on

i'm going thru prememenopause!! and i have hot flashes and the night sweats!!

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