I don't know what law he is referring to when he says you have to stay here. I have been married 23 years, and yes, we did separate for 6 months - I asked him for a divorce & he asked what he could do to make it work, so I told him to leave & dry out for 6 months. That was 12 years ago, and just recently his drinking has got worse again, and so I am back to square one. But what this has taught me is that men seem to talk off the top of thier heads, and what he is saying may not be true. My husband made some threats like getting full custody of our kids, so I went to a law group "Hunter Law Group" ###-###-#### just to get the facts. They will give a half hour counseling session. I learned a lot, and it was obvious that my husband had no real knowledge of the law when he was making threats. I did not have good luck with family counseling. All my childhood teaching "if you can't say something nice.." held me back from being really honest, but my husband had no problem not only complaining about me but blowing things out of proportion. I ended up looking like th bad guy & feeling really bad about myself. Hopefully you will have better luck with the Family Counseling, But you really need to go see the Law Group. It will empower you with the truth. If your husband asks why you went - just do what I did, I told him that he made the threat to take my kids, so I went to a lawyer. Your husband may settle down a bit and decide to try to work it out when he finds that you are taking it seriously. Especially if he finds out how much it will cost him. The lying thing, just depends on what it is about. This is actually my second marrage. The first guy cheated, could not hold a job & did not want to be married, after just 6 months he was trying to get me to date other people. IU found out that is a sure sign that he was seeing other people. After 18 months I realized that it takes BOTH people in the marrage wanting to make it work, and if your husband does not want to make it work, well, I would at least go visit my family, then maybe just not come back. (which is most likely what he is afraid of) Last advice - Keep your self respect, keep in mind your good qualities, and if he is beating you..get out now!!