R.
Hi.....I'm so sorry to hear about the cancer. I just became cancer-free myself a mere three months ago with a mastectomy. I'm only a little older than you at 30.
Ok....here's a little help. No, having your ovaries removed would not have helped. Over 80% of breast cancer cases come out of nowhere. It looks like you're not genetically positive for it, so you wouldn't have had any warning. Your oncologist will be able to help you decipher the test results and what the words mean - if he/she doesn't, find a new one. Oncologists deal with cancer patients every day, so they know what this stuff is off the top of their heads.
Personally, I didn't have some of the issues you show. Partly because I'm so small-breasted, I found the tumor very early - while it was still in situ (locked in place). I have DCIS, no genetic factors, and no warning. I was on birth-control pills for many years to treat ovarian cysts, and it seems this may have contributed to my cancer, but it did not cause it. I'm estrogen-receptor positive as well. So, I'm on an IUD (which I strongly recommend) and hormone therapy. DON'T let them tell you that Tamoxifen is the only way to go!!! It's not!
I can't write everything I've learned about cancer in the past 4 months, but I'm happy to talk if you need an ear whose been there.
Please feel free to contact me at ____@____.com or through mamasource.
My heart goes out to you. Keep up that laughter though!!!! That's what got me through this!
R.
A little about me: A SAHM to a gorgeous 18-month-old girl who chatters my ear off and a fantastic 16-year-old stepdaughter.