Hi C.. My kids are all grown and out of the house, but I well remember the breakfast battles. Mine did't like to eat hot breakfasts either, and to this day, my 18 year old won't eat anything hot before noon! What worked for me was cold cereals, but there you go with the sugar thing. I would suggest maybe some yogurt if they like that, and mix dried fruits and nuts or granola cereal in it. They'd still be getting their dairy and some grains/nuts and fruits. I make up my own granola and put blueberries, dried cranberries, dried cherries, oats, all kinds of honey roasted nuts and seeds in it, along with honey, brown sugar (which is much better for them than refined white sugar) or molasses. Not only is this very nutritious, but my g'kids love it. Whether they eat it with a juice drink as a snack on the way to school, or in yogurt as 'breakfast', it's an alternative. There are wonderful recipes on the internet for making your own granola. Hope this helps.