Hi J.,
Find the small bank in your area, even if it's a little drive and go and talk to them. We actually banked with a bank for two years that was 45 minutes away because they treated us with so much respect and actually understood we are human! Polite, kind, and efficient as well. Never demanding or rude.
Our bank put a location in our home town a year ago and it has been the same pleasant experience, only not having to deal with the drive. Last week they asked my daughter when she was going to open her account because they knew she was creeping up on 18. She opened it today and got a maternal lecture from the bank officer about responsibility and how people can take advantage of her young age. I've already told her that but it was refreshing to hear it at the bank and I'm sure my daughter was more attentive there as well.
Sorry, but my bank is only in South GA. If you ever move to this neck of the woods let me know!
God bless,
M.