Good for you!
My parents were always business owners, so they always had a job for us! When I was thirteen I worked at their restaurant, in college I worked at their day care. We had the same responsibilities as every other employee and if we misbehaved, we were sent home. When we weren't earning that way, we got an allowance only after completing extra chores weekly. We were given 5 extra chores, each paying $1/week, but we could only make the whole five dollars or nothing, so we had to do ALL the chores. I'm sure you can't get away with those sad wages these days. :)
Then my dad took us to open an account. We had $10 that we'd earned. After that, money was put into three categories, 1. Spending money 2. Saving for something money 3. Long term savings.
Spending money was for whatever we wanted, (in my house I emphasize to my kids that they can buy what they want with their money, but I have the right to throw it away if it is inappropriate.) Saving for something money was for larger purchases we wanted to make, like a stereo or a bike, and Long term savings were untouchable funds that helped pay for college.
I'm a financially responsible person -- I have no debt other than my home loan, we even save to buy cars with cash. I credit my folks with teaching me to handle money.
With that said, my brother can't handle money to save his life. He makes an obscene amount of money (4x what we make), but is always broke at the end of the month. So I guess all you can do is your best and hope it all works out.
Good luck!