J.L.
Hello and Welcome to the desert! Me and my husband moved here 2 years ago and our kids we 2 1/2 and 6 mo at the time! Very similar to your situation! My boys are in preschool near desert ridge.
We like going to Bounce U and Pump it up (which is in scottsdale) for the preschool playdaye open bounce session. Also, the zoo membership comes in handy a lot!
I'm from St Louis and my husband is from Palatine IL! We actually met at Southern Illinois University! Small world!