J.,
Whenever I want to get a great parental review on a movie, I go to www.screenit.com . You can scroll to the bottom of the home page and click on "no thanks" and then it is totally FREE or purchase a membership and avoid advertisements.
Anyway, they tell you anything and everything in a movie that could pose a problem, from language to scary music to imitative behavior to revealing clothing to suggestive material. Their attention to detail amazes me. They never say whether to take your kid, just give every detail and let you decide. They also give a rating and an overview including subjects to discuss with your children in advance. I usually agree with what they said after seeing the film.
Screenit also reviews DVDs and music, if you have any concerns about those. We even use this website when my husband and I go out to a movie, because who wants to pay to sit for two hours and watch garbage? Not me.
Good luck,
S.