J.M.
My DD HATES processed chicken nuggets, but she LOVES the ones I make at home. I cut chicken breasts into chunks, (If I'm feeling creative I make shapes. lol) bread them (bread crumbs, and lots of whatever seasonings sound good at the moment) and bake them. Delicious AND healthy for both of us! :)
I rarely order for her from the kid's menu... I usually order her the healthiest 'side' item I can find (Like the apples, oranges, veggies, potato, etc.) and she eats that along with however much of my stuff she wants. I never finish my food when we are out anyway, so it's win-win.
As far as at-home snacks go... My DD LOVES corndogs, so they are my go-to quick meal. :)