Is Me or Just Having Bad Luck with Carrying Babys

I am so sorry for your loss. I think that you could really benefit from seeing a reproductive endocrinologist (RE). An RE can determine why you are having fertility issues; it may be a hormonal issue that can be treated with medication. Best of luck to you and your husband!

I'm so sorry for your losses. It is definitely worth asking your doc, he/she can help you decide if you need to see a specialist or see if it's just one of those unfortunate things and you can try again.

I'm not sure if you mean hubby won't talk to you because he doesn't understand the miscarriage or if he was not speaking to you and doesn't know about the miscarriage. If he is upset about the miscarriage and won't speak to you maybe print out some information from the internet explaining what it is. If he's just not speaking to you out of anger that's a whole other issue.

Good luck to you.

I had a miscarriage in June. It was an unexpected pregnancy and after the shock wore off my hubby and I were thrilled. When I miscarried, I was devestated. He was too, yet we didn't talk. Finally after about a week I confronted him and asked if we were ever going to talk about it. He was handleing it in his own way, by throwing himself into work. I felt like I was going through it alone. A woman can't ignore it, it is her body afterall. He told me it was just so painful he didn't know how to talk about it. It was good to finally get it out and talked about. He felt bad for not being there for me when I needed him. It has strengthened us and our marriage, no more hiding behind work when things get hard.
sorry for your losses. Best of luck to you and your hubby.

It "could" be random, but it's also very possible something is wrong. You won't know until you make an appointment with a doctor. I'm so sorry for you losses, as I can relate. I've m/c six times. We went to a reproductive Endoscrinologist (fertility doc) to get help.

Chrissy

I am sorry for what you are going through. I have been pregnant six times, but I have only had three children. The last MC nearly ended my marriage because my hubby did not understand. I called a really good friend and leaned on her for support and understanding. It was tough, but we came through it.

I would suggest that you and your spouse go talk to your doctor together. Ask your doctor specifically about the emotional side of a MC and let your hubby hear what it actually means from the doctor. He will be able to understand and help you better if he hears it from a professional. It is annoying, but this tends to be the way a guy's mind works.

Good luck, this is hard, but not impossible.