Hi N.,
Congratulations on expecting your first baby!!
You are so right that breastmilk is BEST! :) I'm glad you're not just ruling out BF due to your valid concerns re Hep C transmission. Even if you do end up needing to supplement with some kind of formula for a while, please don't give up on your own milk!!
My little girl and I struggled with BF for several weeks after her birth, but I was SO determined because I knew it was the right thing to do and was the most perfect nourishment for my baby (we did supplement for a little while but she did so much better once we eliminated all formula!). In our case, she had infant reflux (which was worsened by the formula) and also my milk was slow to come in due to having an emergency C section, so we had some unusual circumstances to deal with. No one had warned me about the C-section affecting my milk nor had anyone told me I needed to be pumping ASAP afterwards to help get things going.
You may be encouraged to hear that even with all the initial struggling (including much pumping for a while) my nipples never cracked nor bled. Lansinoh is a great nipple ointment that is a barrier protectant as well as a healing and moisturizing balm, so keep some on hand (it's not expensive and lasts a long time); there may be others too but this one is 100% natural and safe for mom and baby while nursing.
There are some things you can do to help ensure your success as a BF mom, and to help you prepare for that wonderful and vital part of your relationship with your baby. I would highly recommend that you be sure and consult a certified lactation consultant (LC) and also get in contact with your local La Leche League (LLL) to find other moms who can encourage and advise you, plus you may make some great new friends. I'd take a breastfeeding class from a LC or a midwife prior to giving birth and also have the LC available to visit with you after you give birth and help you get started with nursing.
If you are planning a home birth, the midwife, doula (if you engage one) or both can help you with initial breastfeeding and will make sure you are comfortable. If you plan a hospital birth, the nurses may offer some help with initial feeding, but having an LC come in would be the best, and/or another experienced mom from LLL. Besides that, having BF mom friends and an LC that is supportive will encourage you in those initial new-mom weeks when you are tired and perhaps struggling with BF as we did - that is NOT abnormal at all! Both you and baby will be learning how to feed, and it takes a bit of practice and repetition to get it "right" for both of you. The LC will help with getting the correct latch - babies (especially newborns) may fumble with this at first, it's not a big deal as long as you continue to gently adjust and correct the latch to be the proper way for mom and baby. Most if not all nipple problems can be the result of improper latching, or baby not having enough of mom's breast in the mouth for good suckling.
One more thing to keep in mind is that even if you find you must switch to bottle feeding, you can pump and give your baby your own human milk, rather than having to switch to formula. There are also milk banks where nursing moms donate mother's milk to make it available for babies who cannot get it from their own mothers for sustenance. No matter how many people try to say formula is equally good - it's not, and there's a higher risk of digestive issues and food allergies that can arise with formula feeding, as well as overfeeding or even at times underfeeding if the formula is mixed improperly (ratio of water to powder). Plus formula fed babies tend to have more constipation problems in general...not fun. Just some things to think about as you plan for your blessed event! :)
Best wishes to you and your baby, whatever you decide!
Blessings,
S. M.