C.T.
Hello - he sounds very similar to our son. The outburst saying we do not love him and he hates his life really got to me. He only did them when it was time to do homework and he did not want to do it (every night practically). I started him seeing a child psychiatrist and I have to say it was extremely helpful. He saw her all this year (ages 9/10) and it made a huge difference. She really worked with him on his rage, anger, outbursts and on him taking responsibility for things he HAS to do in life. Is your son unable to focus if it is something he wants to do? Or only when it is something he really does not care to do? Part of this is a maturity thing for our son and the other part is his personality (he's stubborn, wants to argue/manipulate to get his way, strong willed, quick to anger, etc). Anyway, things are better after seeing her for a year. We now have stopped having him see her, but we may start again next year if we feel like he needs it.