A.C.
Some children show no interest in most kinds of music. My son loves all kinds of music and smiles and dances, bangs on pianos and stuff like you'd expect, but that's just a toddler who knows music is fun. He hasn't expressed any serious desire to do anything with it though...we just play with wooden spoons and pots, handbells, etc. However, a child who seems to have a REAL appreciation for music, especially instrumental, and knows to specifically ask to play, I would absolutely put in classes. We all spend money in some hobby or video games, Hannah Montana junk, or whatever for our children, hoping they like that passing fad. You KNOW she enjoys/appreciates it, and it's something that can last a lifetime. And as much as my son loves music, he doesn't think about how it makes him feel, or close his eyes to really listen. She's probably got a gift. Even if she doesn't end up being a concert violinist, it sounds like it would be money well spent in something she truly enjoys, and it opens her world up to lots of other things-culture, education. Since you used to play, maybe you could show her some beginner things, maybe teach her some tempo and rhythm, let her watch you do a couple simple things like twinkle twinkle little star or something so she can see how the notes change. If she still wants to play, and you've shown her what you can, I wouldn't hesitate to put her in classes. Shop around online...maybe there's sholarships or grants if she could qualify in either talent, skill level, or financially. Good luck.