D.F.
I don't know about Soces but I can tell you the experience I have had with my daughter and magnet. When I first applied at second grade she was turned down, said her vocab wasn't at advanced level. In fourth grade she was tested for gifted and made it. I was then told to put her in magnet. Of course my daughter didn't want to go and leave her friends so I waited to put her in magnet for middle school. She will start magnet next year in sixth grade because she would be moving to a new school and some of her friends are going to private or regular middle schools. At first she was upset until we talked with her current fifth grade teacher and she was told that most of her friends wouldn't be in her gifted classes at middle school anyways. She is now excited to be going to a new school where she can see her old friends at lunchtime but she will make many new friends at the same time. If your son doesn't want to change schools I would just wait until middle school. Why stress him and yourself out. Good luck to you.