T.F.
We lived in Charlotte and loved it. We moved to Texas in 1989 due to husbands job and we LOVE Texas. It will be difficult to pry me from Texas!!
We would certainly consider going back to Charlotte. We have been back to visit friends, etc and it is still a beautiful city, much larger than when we were there.
We lived in the Matthews burb off Providence Road in the Raintree Country Club area.
At the time, we did not have our daughter so I don't know full details about schools.
Our daughter is seriously considering the East Coast schools for college beginning in 2013... Duke in Durham (We LOVE this city as well... Hubby is Duke BLue Devil), Elon and Villinova. For some reason, she is drawn to that area. We'll probably end up with a condo or 2nd home in the area if she chooses to go to college in the East.